It is important to maintain and
sustain the learning and teaching process of your baby. According to novelist John
Steinbeck, a genius is “a child chasing a butterfly up a mountain”; let
your baby’s curiosity be the butterfly and let his learning environment be the
mountain. Most real learning in the first year occurs within the context of
ordinary everyday life. It doesn’t require formal training; it is a natural
consequence of everyday experience. Be that as it may, to maximize your baby’s
learning potentials, you need to create an enriched learning and teaching
environment. The typical American child, however, does not live in an enriched
environment: he spends hours watching television or playing electronic toys; he
is often engaged in self-directed play, instead of interactive and imaginative
play with his parents.
An enriched learning and teaching
environment for babies and children to reach their maximum intellectual
potentials includes the following:
Your baby needs
to spend time in a safe, secure, and quiet environment.
Your baby needs
a dimly lit environment to see better; use only 40-watt or less light-bulbs in
the nursery.
Your baby needs
freedom of movement; use the crib or playpen sparingly.
Your baby needs
age-related toys and art materials.
Your baby needs
new things to look at all the time.
Your baby needs
regular contacts with adults, especially eye contacts.
Your baby needs
smiles, as well as friendly and affirmative words.
Is Your
Baby Ready to Play and Learn?
There are some obvious physical
changes and signs if your baby is good and ready to play and learn.
Your baby needs
good rest before he can play and learn. Adequate rest avoids mood swings and
improves the brain function in your baby.
Your baby’s
breathing is always slow and even, with a relaxed abdomen, if he wants to play
and learn.
Your baby
sucking rate also slows down considerably.
Your baby’s
attention focuses on the source of stimulation, his fingers and toes fanning
with excitement towards it, as well as his pupils dilating and his eyes
widening.
On the other hand, your baby may
show signs of overstimulation when he cries and squirms, flailing his arms and
legs, and even thrusting out his tongue.
Good parenting means providing an
enriched learning environment for babies and children to learn while playing. A
study conducted at the University
of Chicago found out that
some accomplished adults, such as distinguished athletes, musicians,
mathematicians, and scientists all had parents who shared certain outlooks
about enriched environment in which they were raised and reared.
They all
unintentionally produced a prodigy
They all
encouraged their children to play and to explore the world.
They all
stimulated and motivated their children through playing and learning.
They were all
dedicated to their own interests, and encouraged their children to do likewise,
but without pushing them in that direction.
They all
supported their children’s self-chosen interests, and made their passion a top
priority.
They all
encouraged their children to have independent thinking, and to think for
themselves through curiosity and asking questions.
The key to successful parenting is
to provide an enriched environment for learning while playing, as well as for
recognizing talents and potentials that may or may not be the skills and
abilities you value most. Praising your baby’s efforts and his accomplishments
strengthens your baby’s neurological connections between activity and emotional
rewards, and thus instrumental in developing more interest in trying new things
and experiences.
Bottom line: the more your baby
enjoys spending time with you as he explores the world, the more motivated he
will become, and the more he will learn. Relax, loosen up, and always look at
the environment and the world through your baby’s eyes, rather than those of
your own. It is just that simple.
Stephen Lau
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