The 7 Deadly Sins and the TAO

<b>The 7 Deadly Sins and the TAO</b>
Use the TAO wisdom to overcome the 7 Deadly Sins, and live in reality, instead of in fancy and fantasy.

Tuesday, May 29, 2018

2 FREE Books for You


These two books are FREE for download on AMAZON from May 29 to June 2, 2018.

The Happiness Wisdom
By Stephen Lau

Many are unhappy not because of what they have experienced throughout their life journeys, but because they don't have the human wisdom to perceive and process what they've experienced.

Happiness is a state of mind, due to the the perceptions of the human mind. Change your perceptions to change your so-called realities. Empower your mind with human wisdom -- ancient wisdom from the East and the West, conventional wisdom, and spiritual wisdom -- to think differently to have totally different perspectives of what may have made you happy or unhappy.

To get your FREE digital copy, click here.

TAO The Way to Biblical Wisdom
by Stephen Lau

A complete translation of Lao Tzu's immortal classic Tao Te Ching with respect to the Holy Bible.

Learn and understand the ancient human wisdom from China in order to attain Biblical wisdom.

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Thursday, March 22, 2018

The Four Commandments for a Beautiful Skin

The Four Commandments for a Beautiful Face

If you are a woman, you would want to be beautiful, youthful, and forever young.

What is beauty? Is beauty only skin deep, or something in the beholder’s eye?

In the Orient, the perception of beauty may vary from that in the West: the focus in the East on inner beauty or the inner eye may sometimes seem like imperviousness to the Western mind.

The Oriental perception of beauty may have stemmed from Buddhism, which promotes the following inner innate qualities:

Compassion for others

Detachment from negative thoughts and feelings

Peace of mind and inner tranquility

Right-mindedness from a true heart

A truly beautiful woman has a serene face with a softening spirit. Such a face is often a reflection of the physical, the mental, and the spiritual aspects of that individual. Beauty is more than skin deep: it exudes inner confidence.

You may become aware of the first click of your biological clock around age 30, when your first streaks of silver appear on your hair, or around 35 when you first notice your crow’s feet (for some, this may have happened even sooner.).

According to Phyllis R. Koch-Sheras, clinical psychologist and professor at the University of Virginia in Charlottesville, understanding the changes and learning how to accept and cope with them are anti-aging.

After age 30, your estrogen and testosterone (yes, in women too) levels begin to decline, thus initiating the long process of aging. Getting yourself informed is important in keeping yourself younger for longer.

The four commandments of eternal facial beauty are:

(1) Thou shalt not smoke

Cigarette smoke contains free radicals which damage not only your skin but also your entire body system.

Do not smoke. If you are a smoker, quit smoking immediately.

(2) Thou shalt not drink excessively

Excessive alcohol damages your liver, which supports your skin and kidneys to remove toxins from your body. A damaged liver affects your fertility, your hormone production, and your skin beauty and health.

Drink moderately – no more than one glass of wine a day.

If have alcohol addiction, cure the addiction naturally and permanently.

(3) Thou shalt not worship the sun

The sun’s harmful ultra-violet rays damage your skin permanently.

(4) Thou shalt not eat junk food

Diets and nutritional foods play a pivotal role in skin aging. You are what you eat, and you become what you eat. 


Stephen Lau
Copyright© 2018 by Stephen Lau


Monday, March 19, 2018

My Newly Published Book: The Happiness Wisdom

I have just published my book: “The Happiness Wisdom”, which is a 161-page book on human wisdom based on ancient wisdom from the East and the West, conventional wisdom, and spiritual wisdom, which may all provide guidelines for choosing the happiness ingredients for your own happiness recipe. In addition, the book also provides real examples taken from real life, illustrating how these real people perceive their realities, and thus leading to their happiness or unhappiness.

Human happiness or unhappiness is no more than a perception of the human mind, based on an individual's own life experiences. You think, and your perceptions then become your "realities"; with profound wisdom, you can change how your mind processes your perceptions. Change your mind to change your realities, and live your life as if everything is a miracle! Your life journey is uniquely yours. Make your own happiness recipe from the happiness ingredients of ancient wisdom, conventional wisdom, and spiritual wisdom. Continue your life journey with your own happiness recipe.


Click here to find out more about the book.

Click here to get your digital copy, and here to get your paperback copy.

Stephen Lau

Monday, March 12, 2018

How to Save Your Face

Everybody wants to look young or younger. From a distance, the body shape tells all: if you have a crooked spine or an overweight physique, you look old or older than your age. At close proximity, your face tells all: if you have sunken cheeks, wrinkles, and crow's feet, you look old or older than your age. To look forever young, save your face.

To save your face, protect it from the sun. Sun-exposed face ages much faster and more severely than protected face from the relentless rays of the sun.

Alcohol and smoking may deplete your body of oxygen. Inadequate supply of oxygen creates and develops toxins during metabolism. This explains how you get cramps when certain parts of your body do not have sufficient oxygen supply.


If you are a smoker, a drinker, and a sun worshiper, you get synergistic or multiple effects of aging. You will regret when you reach forty, looking fifty or even sixty. Find out how to quit smoking and stop alcohol addiction.


Eat super foods. Get plenty of vitamin C and vitamin E to neutralize free radicals and counteract cellular damage to your skin. Get these vitamins from natural sources, preferably not from synthetic vitamins tablets. Liquid vitamins are easily absorbed by your body.


Your body needs protein, and so does your skin. Get your protein from plants, such as beans and vegetables (broccoli). If you get protein from animals, the trade off is that you get the fats as well.


Hydrate your skin: drink plenty of water (not just eight glasses of 8 oz water). Your skin cells need water for growth and regeneration. If you feel thirsty, you may already be dehydrated. Remember, your kidneys need water to function efficiently to give your skin its bounciness and firmness, the absence of which is often a sign of old age.


Maintain good atmospheric hydration for healthy and youthful skin. During winter, make sure the air is not too dry; during summer avoid traumatizing heat. If you fly frequently, make sure your skin is moisturized because in high altitude, the pressure on your skin is greater than in the air, resulting in more and faster evaporation.


Don’t scrub or wash your face too many times a day. Your face needs oil production to protect it, so do not strip away those protective oils from your skin. Individuals with a good density of facial oil glands tend to have fewer wrinkles than those who have drier skin. And don’t take a “too hot” bath, because it causes your skin to unduly produce more oil, causing damage in the process.


Cleanse and moisturize you skin with Cetaphil (an inexpensive over-the counter cleanser and moisturizer). Use sunscreen if you are exposed to the sun.


Start protecting your skin at any early age, irrespective of your gender.


Stephen Lau

Copyright © 2018 by Stephen Lau




Thursday, March 8, 2018

Let Go of Stress to Look and Stay Younger

Inner peace is anti-aging, while distress is aging. Being a parent, you must learn to let go of everyday stress to look and stay younger.

Stress is normal. Your body needs stress to accept challenges, to concentrate on doing a difficult task, to make important decisions, or even to have sex. But too much stress can accelerate your aging process.

How stress can age you

1. Chronic stress, which causes your body to maintain physiological reactions for long periods of time, especially with respect to the release of hormones, can lead to depletion of vital nutrients in your body, particularly DHEA (a hormone critical to aging and longevity), vitamin C, and the B-complex vitamins.

2. During stress, your body uses its DHEA supply and impairs the functioning of your body’s hormonal glands. According to scientific research, your DHEA levels decrease as you age. Stress is adding insult to injury.

3. Too much stress increases the production of hormone epinephrine, which wears out your hormonal glands.

One interesting study showed that men who practice meditation (an anti-stress strategy) regularly have significantly more DHEA than those who do not, and the difference is even much more significant in the case of women (maybe women do have more stress than men).

Indeed, stress can accelerate the aging process. According to Robert Sapolsky, author of Zebras Don’t Get Ulcers, you lose your ability to cope with stress as you age, due to elevated blood pressure, which adversely impacts hormone secretions. In this way, stress can become a vicious circle.

If you wish to remain younger and healthier for longer, do not allow stress into your life.

Living in the present



In addition to meditation, cultivate inner peace to look younger for longer by living in the present, which is essentially acute awareness of what is going on around you, in particular, your body response to it. For example, if you are walking, pay total attention to the surrounding, as well as the movements of your hands and feet, and your breathing, instead of listening to the music or talking on the cell phone. Read my book The Book of Life and Living for more tips on wisdom in living.

Also learn how to make your own natural/organic skin care recipes to rejuvenate your facial beauty from Naturally Skinsational.


Stephen Lau
Copyright© 2018 by Stephen Lau
 

Monday, March 5, 2018

Facial Exercises - Do They Work Or Not?

It is a myth that facial exercises may make you look younger, just as exercising the body tones up your body muscles, thereby making you look younger. But facial exercises are something else.

The explanation is that facial muscles on your facial bones are thin and flat muscles, whose function is to give expressions to your face. Facial exercises, through repeated tightening of the facial muscles, only accelerate the formation of wrinkles. Facial exercising does not enhance the tone of your face, nor does it strengthen your facial skin.

The muscles of facial expression are attached to the skin on your face, and repeated tightening or exercising of those muscles folds your skin over and over until wrinkles are formed on your face. Facial exercises are only a wrinkle workout for you.

Remember, Botox utilizes the same principle of reducing the movement of the muscles around the horizontal lines of the forehead or the smile lines of facial expression in order to make you look younger temporarily. The success of Botox attests to the importance of not exercising your facial muscles.

However, don’t stop smiling! Smiling serves to animate your face, giving it a pleasant expression of youthfulness. Smiling is like a natural exercise, but facial exercising is something elselike using steroids for muscle building.

For absolute facial beauty, do not exercise your face. There are books about facial exercises: they make money from you, but do not make you look younger for longer. Massage is something else: it relaxes and soothes your skin.

Stephen Lau

Copyright ©2018 by Stephen Lau

Thursday, February 22, 2018

As If Everything Is A Miracle

This 125-page book is about the wisdom in living as if everything is a miracle. Albert Einstein once said: "There are only two ways to live your life: one is as if nothing is a miracle; the other is as if everything is a miracle."

Life is a miracle; even your breath is a miracle in itself. To live your life as if everything is a miracle, you need wisdom of the body, the mind, and the soul, and they are all inter-connected with one another.

The body perceives all sensations and experiences in the physical world. The mind interprets and registers them in the subconscious mind, which controls the conscious mind in its daily life choices and decisions, resulting in actions, non-actions, and reactions of the body in the physical world. The soul feeds the mind with spirituality that provides connection and interconnection with others through empathy and compassion, gratitude and generosity, as well as love and forgiveness. The body, the mind, and the soul—all play a pivotal role in the wisdom in contemporary living. The essence of this wisdom is their “alignment” with one another for balance and harmony in the being of an individual.

For more information, click here.


Stephen Lau



Monday, February 5, 2018

Food Addiction and Food Safety for Healthy Pregnancy


Food Addiction

Certain food aversions and cravings may develop around the second trimester (why: change of hormones changes food taste and smell). Do overcome food aversions and cravings (why: they may lead to problematic stealth nutrients).

Do overcome healthy food aversions and unhealthy food cravings by:
    
Eating mild-tasting vegetables, such as mash potato and sweet yam

Pureeing cooked legumes and strong-tasting vegetables, such as broccoli and cauliflower

Whipping up a healthy smoothie
    
Food Safety
    
Food is never completely sterile and safe (why not: food has nutrition, water, and warmth—an environment for germs to grow). Contaminated food may result in listeriosis, causing miscarriage, preterm delivery, and low-birth-weight baby with symptoms of fever, chills, muscle aches, diarrhea; E. coli infection from contaminated sprouts and vegetables causing kidney dysfunction with symptoms of abdominal cramps and bloody diarrhea; and salmonella poisoning with severe symptoms of eye irritation and painful urination.
    
Do handle and store food safely to avoid bacteria, parasites, and viruses.

Do reheat hot dogs, luncheon meats, ham, and turkey until steaming hot.

Do keep your hands and utensils clean.

Do keep separate cutting boards for meat and vegetables.

Do keep your foods fresh.

Do sanitize the kitchen countertops with homemade cleanser (small amount of chlorine bleach with water).

Do cook food thoroughly.

Do refrigerate or freeze perishables, prepared food, and leftovers within two hours.

Do read food labels to avoid additives and chemicals as much as possible.

Do reduce the consumption of fruits, such as cherries, grapes, pears, and strawberries; and vegetables, such as bell peppers, celery, lettuce, spinach, and potatoes (why: they are more vulnerable to pesticides, according to the Environmental Working Group; do consume their organic counterparts).

Don’t eat smoked seafood unless they are thoroughly cooked.

Don’t eat soft cheese made with unpasteurized milk.

Don’t reuse a marinade on cooked food.

Don’t take unpasteurized milk or foods that contain them.
    
Have a healthy pregnancy!

Stephen Lau

Monday, January 8, 2018

The Daily Dos and Don’ts of Smart Parents for Their Smart Babies

The Daily Dos and Don’ts of Smart  Parents for Their Smart Babies


Thomas Edison once said: “Genius is one percent inspiration, and 99 percent perspiration.”

This applies to both the baby and the parents. Perspiration means effort and endeavor, both of which involve consistent and considerable time consumption. Do spend time with your baby if you want him to be smart. If you are the parents who wish your baby to become a super baby—not necessarily a genius or prodigy someday—there are many things you have to do, as well as many things you shouldn’t do.

Repetitions

Do repeat and repeat. Repetitions strengthen the neural pathways in your baby’s brain. Do any activity with your baby again and yet again.

Do encourage your baby to repeat his activities again and yet again.

Don’t stop an activity just because your baby has already acquired the skills or learned how to do it. Repeat it not only to reinforce it but also to improve his memory skills. 

Don’t get bored yourself. Instead, do observe the subtle differences in the repetitions of those activities to better understand how your baby has managed and mastered those memory skills.

Stimulations

Do give your baby stimulations as many and as often as possible. Any physical stimulation enhances brain cells and motor skills development in your baby.

Do stimulate your baby’s auditory sensations. Do speak in different tones: whispering and shouting (of course, don’t frighten your baby).

Do articulate your words slowly, syllable by syllable. Do sing to your baby, even creating your own words and rhythms.

Do touch your baby as often as possible, especially his fingers and toes.

Do create movements: exaggerated facial expressions; clapping hands; and even jumping up and down.

Do vary your stimulations, the types, as well as the duration.

Do encourage your baby to respond to your different stimulations. If he makes noises, let him. If he smiles, repeat it.
The bottom line: don’t let your baby get bored; but don’t over-stimulate your baby (no more than 5 minutes each time).

Stephen Lau

Copyright© by Stephen Lau


Thursday, January 4, 2018

Enhance and Protect the Immune System Throughout the Pregnancy

Enhance and Protect the Immune System Throughout the Pregnancy

Do enhance and protect the immune system of the baby and the mother throughout the pregnancy, in particular, the overall health and well-being of the baby before and after birth.
    
The Dos and Don’ts

Do eat only living foods: fresh, whole, and, preferably, organic foods. Don’t eat processed foods (supermarket foods), which are loaded with colorings, preservatives, and taste enhancers.

Do eat sea salt, which is loaded with minerals. Don’t eat table salt (why not: research showed that increased salt intake proportionately increases cancer risk in the bladder, esophagus, and stomach).  

Do get your sugar from fruits and vegetables. Don’t take refined sugar or, worse, artificial sugars, such as aspartame, saccharin, or sucralose (why not: they are more dangerous than refined sugar, because they are loaded with chemicals that impair the immune system).

chew your food thoroughly—at least 10-15 times before swallowing (why: thorough chewing activates enzymes for better digestion facilitates the absorption of vitamins and nutrients, and reduces the production of stomach acid, which is a source of heartburn).
    
Foods to Boost the Immune System

Apples
  
An apple a day keeps the doctor away. Do eat two to three apples a day to keep you healthy throughout your pregnancy (why: the pectin in apples may decrease your cholesterol levels, facilitate your bowel movements to keep you internally clean and to avoid constipation, which may be common during your pregnancy, and improve your lung function).
  
Don’t peel the apples (why not: the nutrients are in the skin). Get organic apples, if possible, to avoid pesticides.

Brown Rice
  
Do eat brown rice, which is one of the few pain-safe foods (foods that do not trigger body pain). It is one of the best staple foods for lowering high blood sugar. Brown rice is loaded with antioxidants, vitamins, and nutrients essential for a healthy pregnancy.
  
Don’t get white rice (why not: while rice is stripped of its nutrients).

Sea Vegetables
  
Do add sea vegetables to your salads and soups (why: sea vegetables have more concentrated nutrients, such as calcium, iron, and protein, than land vegetables).

Sweet Potatoes and Yams
  
Do include sweet potatoes and yams in your daily diet (why: sweet potatoes and yams are rich in beta-carotene, fiber, protein, vitamin C, and DHEA (dehydroepiandrosterone)—a precursor hormone).

The Burdock and Daikon Drink for a Healthier Immune System
  
Burdock root has been used as both food and medicine in Asia and Europe for thousands of years. Recently, it has been used as a nourishing tonic for cancer, liver disease, and rheumatism. Burdock root is a staple diet of the Japanese, who are among the peoples with the longest lifespan in the world.
 
Fresh burdock root is available at many greengrocers, Asian supermarkets, and natural food stores in the United States.
  
Daikon is Japanese radish. Its phytochemicals have recognized healing and anti-carcinogenic properties: it cleanses the blood (the kidneys); it promotes energy circulation; it increases the metabolic rate (a weight loss remedy in Asia); it decongests the lungs, clears sore throat, colds, and edema.

These are the ingredients to make the burdock and daikon drink:

One burdock root (about 24 inches long)
One daikon with green tops
One small carrot with green tops

Here is how to prepare the drink:

Cut all ingredients into small pieces.
Place them in a pot with water double the volume of the ingredients.
Bring to a boil.
Pour out the content, and drink it.


You can repeat the process one more time. This time, after bringing it to a boil, reduce heat, and simmer it for another 20 minutes. Let the ingredients steep in the hot water for another 20 minutes before drinking it.
    
The burdock and daikon drink is a healthy drink for the immune system throughout the pregnancy. Do follow the Asian wisdom for a healthy pregnancy.
    

Stephen Lau

Monday, January 1, 2018

A Better and Happier You in 2018

A Better and Happier You in 2018

There is an old Latin axiom: “nemo dat quod non habet” — meaning, one cannot give what one does not have.

If you don’t have the wisdom to know your real self, you won’t have the wisdom to understand others, especially who they are and what they need. In order to understand others to have better human relationships, you must first and foremost have the wisdom attained through asking self-intuitive questions throughout your life.

Then, with mindfulness, you observe with a nonjudgmental mind what is happening to you, as well as around you. Gradually, you will be able to see things as what they really are, and not as what they may seem to you: anything and everything in life follows its own natural cycle, just as the day becomes night, and the night transformed into dawn. With that wisdom, you may become enlightened, which means you begin to know your true self—what you have and what you don’t have, and you were created to be who you are, and not what you wish you were or want to become. Knowing what you have, you can then give it to others. It is the giving, rather than the receiving, that will make you become a better and happier you in 2018.

Stephen Lau
Copyright© by Stephen Lau